{"id":3067,"date":"2023-06-09T00:14:10","date_gmt":"2023-06-09T00:14:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/deardaughterofgod.com\/?p=304"},"modified":"2023-06-09T00:14:10","modified_gmt":"2023-06-09T00:14:10","slug":"in-laws-a-necessary-evil-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/familiesarising.ca\/fr\/2023\/06\/in-laws-a-necessary-evil-2\/","title":{"rendered":"In Laws – A Necessary Evil? Practical Tips To Have A Beautiful Relationship with Your In-Laws"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"in<\/a>Did you hear me say in-laws?<\/p>\n

Yes you did. I believe as a girl matures, it\u2019s a fact she needs to get real with. And it starts with a good mind-set towards it. Here are some tips that have helped me.<\/p>\n


\nHave a positive mind-set<\/em> about your prospective in-laws in the future if you are still on your way to say yes. If you have already said yes, you can still begin to cultivate a good mind-set towards your in-laws. Believe that you won\u2019t have problems with them contrary to popular belief. I know the popular belief constitutes an aversive view of in-laws but we can replace it with a positive view.<\/p>\n

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\nPrayer<\/em> is also an effective tool in handling in-laws \u2013 sending prayers forth as a single woman and as a married woman, praying about different issues that affect your home in respect to your in-laws. I have done both and can testify that it really works wonders. I have seen God intervene at the last minute, bringing succor to my relationship with my in-laws.<\/p>\n

\nGive to Caesar what belongs to Caesar<\/em> – this is a rule, the Holy Spirit taught me in my home. It doesn\u2019t mean foolishness; it just means your in-laws will not stay forever. While they are around, let them have their way as much as wise assertion can permit. Give them their due place, not looking down on them or competing with them. Try not to demand respect from them because they are in your home but let them have their place whenever they come around.<\/p>\n

\nPatience<\/em> \u2013 be patient with them. People don\u2019t change overnight in most cases so be patient. With patience, you can find angry, discontented in-laws come around and become allies. You have to shut your ears to all the negative vibes you have been getting about them and hope for the best.<\/p>\n

\"PATIENCE\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\nLove and accommodate them<\/em> \u2013 there is power in love because, God is love. Anytime we employ this weapon, it will always work. Love your in-laws, encourage them to be better people, don\u2019t fight every time your spouse sends them money, allow planned visits and sometimes impromptu visits, send text messages or place a call to them often at least monthly. Let them know that you care irrespective of the distance barrier. Accommodate their excesses after-all, they are human beings too.<\/p>\n

In-law relationships can become quite valuable if you positively explore the possibilities in them patiently.<\/p>\n

“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.<\/em>“<\/em> – Proverbs 14:1
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Love You,<\/p>\n

Blessing Onwuamah<\/p>\n

This post was first published on www.deardaughterofgod.com<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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